Debra VanDeventer, Author at Seams Like a Story

August 21, 2022July 23, 2023

3 National Parks, 1 Monument, and a 10-Year-Old

Lillian’s Decade Trip

The Decade Trip

When each of our grandchildren turn 10, Ed and I take them on a “Decade” trip (AKA “Skip-Gen” trip, no parents allowed) We choose this age because, according to the AARP article that inspired us, 10-year-olds can take care of themselves (mostly), have fairly flexible schedules, and are still eager to do things with their grandparents. Six summers ago we took our first decade trip with Michaela, and if you follow my blog you will remember the trip we took last summer with our special needs granddaughter Melanie.The RV Adventure Begins

This summer it was Lillian’s turn to celebrate her first decade of life . She is a bright, fun-loving girl who, as it turns out, is a savvy traveler. (Check out her hilarious travel-tips here: Travel Tips From a Ten-Year Old) Several years ago, we started a National Park Passport for Lillian, so her Decade trip was centered around the theme of National Parks and Monuments.

The Grand Canyon

Our trip began with a train ride from Williams, AZ to the Grand Canyon. The two-hour train ride takes you directly to the village at the South Rim. (If you have a National Park Pass, the park entrance fee is deducted from your ticket price) There are several packages to choose from, but we found the day trip was perfect for an introduction to the Canyon.

The first glimpse of the Canyon takes your breath away! We walked on the paved pathway around the rim, then went to the visitor’s center so Lillian could get her Jr. Ranger Booklet. We enjoyed lunch in the Canyon Room at the historic El Tovar Inn. Travel Tip: If you plan to eat at the Inn, make reservations ahead of time.

Lillian looks over her Jr Ranger book, while Ed peruses the menu.

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August 6, 2022January 21, 2023

4 Ways to Move Through Writer’s Block

…and Embrace the Seasons of your Creative LIfe

Color Schemes

by Debra VanDeventer

 (sometimes)
I am turquoise
confident, creative 
shining brilliant,
reflecting
sonoran sky
caribbean sea

(sometimes)
I am gray
silent, solitary
suspended in space
between
black and white
gathering thoughts
for turquoise days

What is Writer’s Block

Some call it “writers block,” for me it’s more of a lack of inspiration, low energy, self-doubts I call them my gray days. Whatever it is, these dry spells are concerning for me. Negative thoughts creep in and that internal nagging voice seizes the opportunity to taunt me: you are a bad speller, no one will think your writing is interesting, there are better uses for your time, it’s too much work…

Moving Through Writer’s Block

What do you do when you experience a block to your creativity? First of all, don’t panic. It happens to all writers and other artists. Here are 4 things I’ve found to be helpful during gray days.

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July 22, 2022January 21, 2023

A New School Year Begins

…and I’m obsessed with school supplies!

It happened again. I’ve been retired from teaching for four years and I thought I was over it. But there I was, frozen in the “Back to School” aisle in Target. Dr. Seuss pencils, Welcome Back banners, calendars, pencil cups, plastic totes, color coordinated planners, notebooks, and file folders shouted “Pick me! Pick me!” Imagine the possibilities! My heart raced and my husband had to drag me away.

Happy New Year!

For those of us who have been teaching most of our lives, the New Year doesn’t start on January 1. It begins in August on the first day of school.

I always loved getting my room ready and set up for the new school year. I convinced myself that the right combination of room arrangement and color coordinated organizational gadgets would start the year off right. My energy level peaked in the weeks before school started as I moved tables and chairs around, set up the fish aquarium, and prepared eye catching bulletin boards. Like a marathon runner, I burst out of the starting gate with a well-organized room, eager to meet and greet my new class. Now my energy rush is building but it has nowhere to go.

Getting my “fix”

I begged my friend to let me come in and help her set up her room.

She let me put nametags on cubbies and coat hooks, organize her classroom library, and help hang a string of decorative lights to add just the right touch to the front of her room. I was in heaven. For a brief time, I was back in my element. I could still do this, I thought as I drove home. I could!

Reality hit as I pulled out of the parking lot and glanced at the school in my rearview mirror. I was reminded of a sign I saw at the hairdressers (of all places.)

Don’t look back, you’re not headed that way.

New Horizons

I will always honor my past as an educator, but I’m not going that way. I’m living life on my own terms, on my own timetable now, traveling and spending unhurried time with family and friends and exploring new horizons as a sewist and a writer.

Retirement suits me.

School-Supply Obsessed?

But still… crayons for fifty cents?!!!

Lord, keep me away from Target right now!

Threads of Thought

My heart goes out to teachers, administrators, students, and parents as they face what looks to be yet another challenging year. Be kind. Stay safe. Do amazing things against all odds. I know you will. You always do.

Read more about my school supply obsession and my transition to retirement in: Out of the Crayon Box: Thoughts on Teaching, Retirement, and Life http://amazon.com/author/debravandeventer

June 26, 2022June 26, 2022

Voluntary Simplicity

Discovering less is more

I have no plans today. For someone who had been a teacher for 37 years, and retired for four, this continues to be problematic for me. Don’t get me wrong, I love my retired life and most days I have plenty to do. My husband and I travel, we do things with our children and grandchildren, I enjoy lunch or tea with friends, I journal, blog, work on my next book or read, I hike and swim. But today I feel like a whiny child…”I’m bored…I have nothing to do.”

It’s hard for me to sit still with no expectations of working on something or planning my next project. I feel a need to fill in every minute. In a pinch I’ll turn on TV or mindlessly scroll through my phone. Is it my personality, the traits I was born with, or the result of having to plan and overplan each moment when I was teaching?

During my morning journaling time , I reached for one of my go-to books, the one with the strange name: Wherever You Go, There You Are by Jon Kabat-Zinn

I revisited the idea of Voluntary Simplicity. Here are my take-aways:

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June 15, 2022April 28, 2024

DIY Herb Drying Rack

Under cupboard, no tools required

One of the joys of retirement is that I have time to explore hobbies. I’ll admit, I’m not much of a gardener, and the desert Southwest makes it even more challenging, but I have a small herb garden in the corner of my yard. Here is where Oregano, Thyme, Mint, and Sage live in large clay pots. Rosemary is a wild thing. She is planted in the ground where she is free to grow where she will.

My garden also includes an agave, a succulent, a jasmine vine, and two lizzards, none of which are edible.

My husband Ed is the chef of the family and the fresh herbs we grow are an important part of his meal creations. This time of year we grow more than we can use, so I’ve divised a simple way to dry and store them. This is my kind of DIY project. No tools, quick and easy.