Adventures in Thrifting

a bowl, notecards and a book : thrifted treasures
Thrifted Treasures

thrifting. Verb: shopping for or buying used goods especially at a store that specializes in secondhand merchandise.

thrifting. Purpose: to find and purchase things you didn’t even know you needed.

thrifting. Fun: experienced alone or with a friend, an enjoyable way to spend a morning.

My friend E and I go to lunch every month or so to catch up and discuss our current writing projects. Last week, we decided to mix things up and meet at a local thrift store before lunch. An “artist date.”

According to Julia Cameron in her book The Artist’s Way, an artist date is a block of time especially set aside and committed to nurturing your creative consciousness. I was long overdue for some inspiration. What treasures would we find?

We arrived shortly after the store opened and the checkout line was already backed up to the housewares section. A sign proclaimed it was “Christmas in July” and all holiday merchandise was half off. Many shoppers had their arms full of decorations, gift wrap, and holiday nick-nacks.

Except… One man shifted from foot to foot as he waited in line, trying to balance two large, orange, gasoline cans in his hands. (The kind you use when you run out of gas and have to walk to the gas station. )Hopefully they were empty. I’m sure there are laws. I’d found my first story and I hadn’t even started shopping yet!

E stopped to look at a display of Christmas cards, boxed in original packaging. As it’s over a hundred degrees here, I’m not in the mood for Christmas. I moved on.

A Portuguese bowl painted with colorful stripes and playful fish caught my eye. It reminded me of Dr. Seuss…One fish, Two fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish. It had to be authentic because the hand printed tag taped to the bottom makes it so…and a bargain at $12. But I don’t need it . I said as much to E. “Ok, but its really cute,” she said. I walked away and continued my search.

Things that ended up in my basket:

  • Three blank journals, unused. (But wouldn’t it be fun to find secret notes in them? There’s another story idea!)
  • Three packages of vintage floral notecards. I wasn’t surprised to see them at the thrift store. Most messaging is done via text or email these days, but I still like to send notes or include them with gifts.
  • A pristine copy of Writing Down the Bones: Freeing the Writer Within. The copywrite is 2005, but I could tell it had never been read. The cover was still tight and there are no notes, highlights, or coffee stains. Perhaps the original owner already knew everything about writing, or thought they wanted to write, but never got around to it. This will be a good addition to my writing library.
  • A red, t-shirt type dress was in my basket temporarily. I had high hopes it would be a good addition to my travel wardrobe, but after I slipped it on in the dressing room, no. A definite no. Seasoned thrifters know you win some, you lose some.

E had her hands full too. On the way to check out, the Portuguese bowl I didn’t need called out, “Pick me, pick me! ” I couldn’t resist. This was my favorite purchase of the day. It prompted me to make a nice crisp summer salad for dinner that night, inspired a blog post, and makes me smile.

As it turns out, impulse buys, those things you weren’t looking for but tug at your heart, are the best part about thrifting! Something is waiting for you out there!

a salad in a decorative thrifted bowl
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Are you a thrifter?

What’s the best thing you’ve found at a thrift store?

What do you currently own, that needs to go to the thrift shop?

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The 52 Hike Challenge Begins

holding a patch that reads :52 Hike Challenge

January 1, 2024. Christmas was over, the kids and granddaughters were on their way home. Post-holiday lethargy had set in and I was mindlessly scrolling through my phone when an ad for the 52 Hike Challenge caught my attention. I thought it might be a fun way for my husband and I to get out of our routine, get some fresh air and exercise, and spend time together.

“Hey, would you like for me to sign us up for this?” I showed the ad to Ed.

“Sure, why not?”

The 52 Hike Challenge

Why not?! One hike a week for 52 weeks. The “Official rules” state that your hike should be at least a mile outdoors. You may start the challenge anytime during the year. My personal goal is to seek new adventures and try to do 52 unique hikes, although there will most likely be repeats. So far we’ve hiked in nearby state and national parks, a Sandhill Crane observatory, a reclaimed wetlands preserve, and a converted railroad trail. All have been 1.5-2.5 miles with easy terrain. 

Note: If you’re interested, there’s a link in the “Threads of Thought” section at the end of this post. I am not affiliated or sponsored by the 52 Hike Challenge. The site will direct you to several “Packages”, that include various perks, but I signed up for the free version that included a free hike tracker. I purchased a 52 Hike Challenge patch separately. (Because who doesn’t love an official patch?)

Going the Distance

To log the milage of each hike, my son helped me download the Strava app on my phone. This is an excellent resource , but it took a hike or two to figure it out. Looking back over one of my first hikes, I noticed that I’d neglected to turn the app off and it continued to track me walking around my house and running errands for many days. (weeks?) It recorded the hike as 135.52 miles with a maximum speed of 60 miles per hour. I should delete it, but it looks rather impressive. I’m keeping it up for a while. Actually, my mph is very slow, much to the annoyance of others we sometimes hike with. Blame it on the fact that while hiking I’m stopping to take pictures and… 

Write the Hikes

So here’s how my brain works: I’m a writer, can I write the hikes? Yes, of course! I try to take a journal, or record some impressions once I get home. I record the date and distance, and who we hiked with. A recent hike inspired a poem. The world is full of stories and poems if you know how to look for them! 

 And then, my brain said…I’m a sewist, so what if could…

Quilt the Hikes

I dashed off to the quilt shop to buy bits and pieces of fabric, then a friend helped me cut out lots of triangles. I’m not a quilter, but I had so much fun with my friend’s rotary cutter and she helped me figure it all out mathematically. The plan is to earn a triangle for each hike. I’ll sew these together into squares, then fashion a wall hanging at the completion of the challenge. Sounds ambitious, but this keeps me motivated to see how the quilt grows.

Patchwork quilt

We’re two months and eight hikes into the Challenge. So far, so good, but the year is young. Will we complete the challenge? Stay tuned!

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Live creatively! “There’s a time for certain ideas to arrive, and they find a way to express themselves through us.” (Rick Rubin)

Are you inspired by nature? Go for a hike!

http://www.52hikechallenge.com

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The Timekeepers

The Lost Art of Clock Repair

the front of a shop with the name "Ye Olde Clock shoppe" in red letters

The name of the shop gives the first clue you are traveling back in time.  Four months ago my husband dropped off a clock at Ye Olde Clock Shoppe. Ed is not a clock enthusiast usually, but this timepiece has sentimental value. He purchased the clock in Switzerland when he was a student studying abroad, and had it shipped back as a gift to his parents. It moved from place to place, resting atop various shelves and side tables, never running properly, then stopping altogether. When Ed’s mother passed away this spring, we became the keeper of the clock .We’d almost forgotten about the repair shop until we got a call. “Your clock is ready. You can come pick it up.” 

  Although the shop appears to be an ordinary place of business set between others in the shopping center, once you open the door you enter a world where time tics and tocks–stands still and moves forward. In the dim light I see half dozen Grandfather clocks guarding the door, making it nearly impossible to approach the counter. The walls are packed with scores of cuckoo clocks–their hands still and their whimsical characters silent behind shuttered doors. Past the counter are shelves and shelves filled with clocks of all kinds waiting their turn to come back to life. More clocks create a maze on the floor, making passage through the shop difficult. Thoughts of Harry Potter’s Diagon Alley run through my mind and I am expecting a clock wizard to appear when I ring the bell for service.

And indeed, a woman with long gray hair, a long skirt and shawl, and wire-rim glasses walks from the back room to greet us. When Ed gives our name, she heaves a large black ledger onto the counter, scrolls through several pages, then taps our name with a bent finger. “Yes, yes, the Anniversary Clock. She’s a beauty. I’ll get her for you.” And she disappears into the back room. After several minutes, she carries the timepiece gingerly through the clock maze and eases it onto the counter.

She takes her time to tell us about our clock and how to care for it–how to make adjustments when it runs fast or slow. “You only need to wind it once a year…that’s why they call it an Anniversary Clock” she informs us.

And this is where the wizardry happens. The clock runs all year on the force of the pendulum–four golden balls that rotate, left and right, by centrifugal force. No batteries, no electricity, no internet connection. Of course it’s science, not wizardry. But what minds figured out how this works–how the minute hand and the hour hand move with surprising accuracy? It’s the timekeepers of the world who are keeping this lost art alive. The tinkerers of tiny parts, levers and gears.

The shop has a tremendous backlog of clocks needing repair, as there are few left who understand the craft. They are a dying breed, these horologists, in our high-tech world. While we are waiting, a woman comes in to complain. “I brought my clock in two weeks ago! Why isn’t it done?” A product of our “I want it now Amazon world”, she doesn’t understand it takes time to make time.

As we finish up, the wizard woman wraps our clock with great care. “Keep her steady, hold her on your lap on the way home.” And so I do, as if I were carrying a newborn on my lap. Once home we place it on the shelf we’d cleared in the living room, so we can enjoy it. We’ve made a few adjustments– a few minutes too fast, then too slow–she’s sensitive. But what a joy to watch. The pendulum moves silently around, back and forth at the perfect pace, and the hands keep time in sync with the rhythm of the Earth.

Here’s to the timekeepers of the world.

a glass domed clock with golden ball pendulum
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Do you have a clock story to share?

How to you keep and measure time? By your phone, Apple watch, Fitbit, digital, analog? How has this changed in your lifetime?

Time has a different quality to it now that I’m a writer. Learn more about my transition from teaching in Out of the Crayon Box, Thoughts on Teaching, Retirement, and Life http://amazon.com/author/debravandeventer

Tall Candle Dinners

You’re invited…are the candles tall?

tall white candles in crystal holders on a table set with roses and two classes of wine
Ready for a tall candle dinner

In her 1922 book on Etiquette, Emily Post says when setting the proper table “candlesticks or candelabra must be high and the candles as long as the proportion can stand. There are candles on all dinner tables always! “

Well, that was then, this is now, I hear you saying. Emily was no doubt referring to high- society entertaining, not our everyday grab-and-go dinners of today. I get it, but let me introduce you to my thoughts on candle etiquette.

Tall Candle Dinners

My husband and I enjoy having people over for dinner. He does the cooking and right before the guests arrive I set the table, making sure to include a small centerpiece of fresh flowers and candles. We have found that candlelight and dimmed overhead lighting along with a wonderful meal and a glass or two of good wine contributes to engaging conversations around the table. Often our guest remain at the table for hours, staying until the candles are stubs of melted wax in the candleholders.

Family dinners

The candle tradition extends to our family dinners as well. We live a distance from our grown children and granddaughters, so mealtimes together are cherished occasions. When we get a chance to gather for a meal at our house, we always light candles and start with a toast. We clink our wine, or iced tea, or water glasses together and let each other know how happy we are to be together.

Table for Two

Of course, Valentine’s Day, birthdays and anniversaries warrant a candlelight dinner, but I’ve noticed that lately, when it’s just Ed and I, we often light candles for ordinary everyday dinners. Even when it’s leftovers or we think we don’t have much to talk about, the ritual of lighting the candles seems to say “This time together is important.”

boxes of candles
My candle stash

A lot of candles

So, yes. This takes a lot of candles. I’m picky, but through trial and error, I’ve found the perfect ones. I kind of don’t want to tell you about them because I’m afraid you’ll get to Trader Joe and buy out their limited stock.

OK, here goes, but don’t tell anybody else: My favorite off-white, non drip inexpensive candles are only available seasonally between Thanksgiving and Christmas and during that time we buy enough to get us through the year. I only buy a couple of boxes at once though because I don’t want the cashiers to think I’m in a weird cult or something. But the other day I took inventory and think maybe I am a borderline candle hoarder. (I currently have 15 boxes x 8 candles per box…you do the math) On the bright side, If the electricity goes out, I’m prepared.

short candles in crystal candleholders on a table with roses
Uh oh, The short candle dinner…

The short candle dinner

My children and close friends have a theory that if you come to my house for dinner and you see the candles in the holders are short it means we’d rather you not stay too long. No comment except to say ” There are candles on all dinner tables always! ” (according to Emily Post) and for you, my dear readers, the candles will always be long.

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Take some time this holiday season to gather around the table with friends and loved ones. Go ahead, light some tall candles and stay until they melt into tiny stubs!

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Wine Snobs

A couple standing in front of Wine Snobs Winery in Glen Ellen CA

“Embrace your inner wine snob…go ahead and say ‘this Tempranillo tastes faintly of leather saddle,’ but don’t expects anyone else to know what you’re talking about…after all, they didn’t go saddle licking with you last weekend.” -from the website of Wine Snob winery in Glen Ellen, California.

Who would go on a road trip to California without a stop in wine country? Not us! But would we fit in with the wine snobs? We worried about this because we are not wine snobs. (At least I’m pretty sure we are not based on the fact that, though we appreciate a good glass of wine, we buy most of our bottles at Trader Joe’s) We quickly learned we had nothing to fear!

Ed and I , along with good friends and travel buddies D & L booked a lovely Airbnb in Kenwood, right in the heart of Sonoma Wine Country. The “Sonoma Valley Getaway” exceeded our expectations. The hosts left a bottle of wine and a personal note to welcome us. Not snobby at all! Best of all, the home was within walking distance of several wineries, so no need worry about who would be the designated driver. As long as we all remained in walkable condition, we were good!

Expect to pay between $25-40 a person for wine tastings in Sonoma Valley, but don’t despair! We found it perfectly acceptable to skip the tasting, buy a glass of wine, and go out to the patio under the trees and enjoy!

A glass of red win with a vineyard in the background
A lovely glass of zinfandel at St. Anne’s Crossing Winery (mostly gone before I remembered to take a picture)

We met several sommeliers ( a wine snob term for one who pours your wine-whoo hoo, listen to me now!) and found them to be knowledgeable and very friendly. One of our favorites poured herself a small sample of each wine we wanted to try before filling our glasses, then she announced “Oh, this one is good today!” Later she confessed “I’m a retired high school teacher. This is the best job I’ve ever had. “

It was 10:30 in the morning. I’m a former kindergarten teacher. I could relate.

The Wine Snob Winery (featured at the beginning of this post) advertises $15 tastings. Wine Snob is owned and operated by a fascinating young couple who are following their dream. They work with several vineyards to gather grapes, then make and bottle their own wine, design the labels, market their business, and run the showroom. Their motto is “you don’t have to be a wine snob to enjoy wine. You don’t need to use words like “velvety tannins” and “hint of lychee on the nose” to describe a wine. Your taste buds. Your rules. So don’t let the wine snobs get you down!”

My sentiments exactly! Cheers!

PS: If you happen to be a wine snob, no worries. You will be welcomed too.

A glass of white wine
A beautiful Chardonnay and a doggie friend at VJB Cellars
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Have you been to California Wine country? What was your experience?

Do you have a favorite wine?

For the record: each wine we tasted in Sonoma Valley was excellent. Definitely a step above our Trader Joe bargains. This region of California is excellent for growing grapes and the winemakers here know what they are doing. Still not a snob, but I’ve been enlightened.

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To find out how Debra (former teacher) became an author, blogger, traveler, and not a wine snob, get a copy of Out of the Crayon Box: Thoughts on Teaching, Retirement, and Life http://amazon.com/author/debravandeventer

(Pairs well with a bold red.)