Daffodil Days

Daffodils

This time of year, I’m obsessed with them. Maybe it goes back to my Midwestern roots. I spent most of my life in southern Indiana where winters are cold, drizzly, and gray. During winter, the glorious decidous trees of autumn are bare and stark, the luxurious green lawns of summer are brown and muddy and cabin fever rages. It was the worst time of year for those of us in the teaching profession. The period between winter break and spring break seemed to go on forever. Indoor recess had lost it’s charm, students were restless, and teachers were weary.

The Little House in the Woods

When my husband and I moved our family to a house in the woods, the kids and I planted daffodil bulbs on the hillside behind the house. Each dormant bulb held the promise that spring would come. We couldn’t wait to see the first green shoots springing up form under the leaf mulch in the woods. When the hillside burst into bloom, we knew winter days would soon be gone. Each year, I would gather a large boquet and bring it inside.

Josie’s Favorite

Daffodils were my grandmother’s favorite flower. She called them jonquils. I like to call them that too, though purists say ” While regionally jonquils may be called daffodils, this is botanically inaccurate. They are both in the Narcissus family, however there are slight differences. “

So what’s in a name? My grandmother’s name was Josephine Marie. She prefered to go by Marie, but allowed Gandpa to call her Josie . “..a rose by any other name would smell as sweet”

(Those of you who are really paying attention will note that Grandma is standing in front of tulips,not daffodils or jonquils or roses… but you get the idea.)

Daffodils in the Desert

Now I live in the Southwest. There is an abundance of wildflowers blooming in the desert this spring, but sadly, no daffodils grow here. I went to Trader Joe’s to get some. I didn’t find them with the fresh flowers and was about give up when I spotted some bunches of spindly little stems in pre-bloom stage bound together with a rubber band and stacked in a wooden box. With no water. Orphans. I had to bring them home. As per the directions on the tag, I snipped off a half and inch from each stem and put them into some water.

a box of daffodil shoots displayed in a store
snipping off the tips of daffodil stems

I wasn’t expecting much, but by the next morning…

a green vase of daffodil buds
a green vase full of yellow daffodils

….my kitchen counter was glowing with yellow blooms! I know they are short-lived, but for now I am enjoying the burst of spring, the reminders of Grandma, my Indiana home, and the end of winter.

But I think it’s deeper than that. Perhaps , for me, these bright yellow blooms bursting from dormant bulbs and spindly stalks give me hope and courage. Their blooms are fleeting. Their message lingers.

Have a joyous spring my friends!

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The Courage to Bloom

How to put negative self-talk in time out.

(This post has been updated from it’s original publishing date.)

This Maiposa Lily has the couragage to bloom in the crack of a rock.

Bloom

by Debra VanDeventer

A Mariposa Lily

 emerges from a crack in a granite rock

and bursts into bloom.

It ignored the voice  that said

lilies aren’t supposed to do that.

The piece of goldenrod linen had been in my fabric stash for months.  Today I got it out and spread it on the cutting table.  I decided it would make a nice pair of wide leg pants from the Emerson pattern I have on hand.  The fabric is perfect for spring and summer. But before I make the first cut, I hesitate. The voice in my head challenges me.  Fear says:

A pattern is on a piece of gold fabric.  Do I have the courage to bloom and cut out the pattern pieces?

The piece of goldenrod linen had been in my fabric stash for months.  Today I got it out and spread it on the cutting table.  I decided it would make a nice pair of wide leg pants from the Emerson pattern I have on hand.  The fabric is perfect for spring and summer. But before I make the first cut, I hesitate. The voice in my head challenges me.  Fear says:

Write it Real

Why Authors Should Journal

an open journal, pen and a tea cup

Write it real…

That’s what a friend and a valued member of my critique group said to me last week. The chapter that had just been critiqued was “entertaining and well written,” my friend remarked, yet something was missing. “It needs more of you,” he’d said. “Write it real.”

This is exactly what you want from a critique group. Honest feedback that will help you bring your writing to the next level. Yet hearing these words is especially painful for a memoirist like myself, because really…it’s all about me. (that’s what the genre implies) I think my friend was saying my work needed less fluff… more emotion, more authenticity. In my heart of hearts, I knew he was right. But no matter what your genre, how does one go about “writing it real?”

DIY Drop Hem Capri Jeans

the author models capri jeans and a white linen top

A New Look for an Old Favorite

Hi friends! If you’ve been following Seams Like a Story, you know I often turn to sewing when I need a creative break from writing. https://seamslikeastory.com/writing-and-sewing/ Today I’m getting inspiration from my closet, and a fun, no-sew project.

It’s that in-between season. I’m ready to shed my heavy winter clothes but not quite ready for summer styles. Today I raided my closet and found an old pair of capri jeans and a tee shirt, ususally an outfit reserved for stay-at-home days. The jeans are pull on “jeggings” that I’m pretty sure are out of style. They’re comfortable, but I feel kind of dumpy in them.

Before tossing them in the donate pile, I did some research on Pinterest and found that with a no-sew, simple modification I could easily update them. https://www.pinterest.com/pin/485896247291178984/

What you need to make your drop-hem capri jeans:

Finding Inspiration for Creative Work

the sun breaking through the clouds symbolizes where to find inspiration for creative work
Does an idea descend from the cloudy sky that is our brain and burst forth as a golden ray of artistic expression?  

Finding inspiration for creative work…For the purpose of this blog post, I define an artist as a person who ‘ practices any of the various creative arts.’ Painter, sculptor, dancer, sewist, photographer, chef, architect, designer writer…

Though the process may vary depending on the individual and their medium of expression, every creative work begins with an idea.  But, where do ideas come from?

Does an idea descend from the cloudy sky that is our brain and burst forth as a golden ray of artistic expression?

Well, actually…. that’s literally what happened to me as I sat down to write about inspiration this morning. I was looking out of the window in my writing/sewing studio and the sun broke through the clouds. Knowing that the moment was fleeting, I ran outside to snap a photo with my phone. That photo was the catalyst, the inspiration for this post. Of course, this doesn’t always happen and to me. I wanted to explore this topic more. Through my reading, I came across some thoughts about how other creatives find inspiration for their work. Read on to discover how some famously creative people find inspiration: