The China Balthazar

When a gift becomes a treasure.

Balthazar figurine

The Lenox china nativity was in a special box, each piece packed in a protective layer of bubble-wrap. A gift from my mother. She’d shop the after-Christmas sale at Macy’s and add a character for my siblings and I each year, four complete sets in all.

I didn’t appreciate the gift then; it was too extravagant, too fragile. I prefered my rustic manger and resin figurines; something that my children could handle. Besides, as a young family living on one income at the time, there were practical things we could have used. What was I going to do with a bone-china Balthazar? The set remained packed away as we moved from home to home.

I found the box as I was setting up the decorations this year and set it on the floor in the living room. Gingerly, I unwrapped each piece: the Holy Family, an angel, a shepherd and lamb, a donkey, the little drummer boy, and the three wise men bearing gifts.

Blinking back tears, I see it now as a treasure, my mother’s way of gifting her children a keepsake, something she never would have had in her home growing up. I arranged the pieces carefully on the table. This will be my first Christmas without her.

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Hold your loved ones close, and keep those you’ve lost in your hearts during this joyous season and always.

Thank you so much for being a part of my Seams Like a Story Family. I can’t wait to share with you in the new year!

8 Replies to “The China Balthazar”

  1. Your mom will always be with you. The first year after your mom’s loss is especially hard.Thank you for your tender story. I have a Christmas village my mom built piece by piece over the years. It brings wonderful memories when I look at it.

  2. Merry Xmas, Deb! Thank you for all the anecdotes and observations, all of which reminds us it is the little moments that make life special.
    Michael B (OVWF)

    1. Thank you for reminding me that as writers and poets our words are personal, yet have the ability to reach other hearts as well. This is why I write. Looking forward to connecting with you at or writers forum.

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