Going for Gold

This week, I found myself glued to the television watching the 2026 Winter Olympics in Milan/Cortina. I was captivated by the crazy curlers launching their stones and yelling directions to teammates who frantically swept the the ice ahead of them. I gasped as cross country skiers collapsed at the finish line after spending every ounce of their energy on the grueling course. I marveled at the daredevil jumps, twists, and flights of snowboarders and ski jumpers. I held my breath as lugers and skeleton athletes launched themselves like human misses down the ice on tiny sleds reaching speeds of up to 90 mph.

But my favorite is figure skating. I love the costumes, the music, the way the athletes tell their story through, specific moves, dance, music, and costumes as they glide around the rink. Ilia Malinin, a 21 year-old skater from the US, was competing in his first Olympics. He’d gained fame in previous completions as the “Quad God”, for his unprecedented ability to land multiple quadruple jumps. He was a shoo-in to take gold in the men’s figure skating event. The pressure was on and the media paparazzi followed his every move throughout the week.

In his first appearance on Olympic ice, he faltered a bit in the team competition, coming in second. He seemed to have regained his composure a few days later and came in first in the initial part of the individual men’s event. All he had to do was skate the free skate portion of the program and the gold would be his. But something was off. On several of his signature quad jumps, he landed singles. Then he fell. Twice. He ended up in eighth place. It was heartbreaking to watch.

After learning the results, Malinin walked over to Kazakhstan’s Mikhail Shaidorov to congratulate him on his Olympic gold medal win. He later said that the pressure of being in the Olympic spotlight got to him and he “lost his way” on the ice on the most important skate of his life.

There is no official Olympics for authors, but often the “gold medal” is measured by Best Seller lists, five star ratings, social media followers, books sold, invitations to book festivals and speaking events. It’s easy to get caught up in the competition, or feel that your work doesn’t measure up. When faced with a disappointment or a setback, it would be easy to give up.

That’s when I turn to this quote by Elizabeth Gilbert (Big Magic):

“There is a quiet glory in merely making things, and then sharing those things with an open heart and no expectations.”

We take the setbacks, learn from them, and move on. We remind ourselves of the passion, the joy we take in creating our art and sharing it with others. No expectations. Out of the spotlight. A quiet glory.

I don’t pretend to be an Olympic skater, and I can only imagine what Ilia must be going through, but I hope he rekindles his passion, gains from this experience, and finds his way back. I look forward to seeing what he can do next.